Well its Tuesday...but since i was off work yesterday, it feels like a Monday! Yesterday was me and hubby's two year wedding anniversary! Yep..two years already! Time just flies doesn't it?
We went overnight to AC...got a room at the Tropicana (which we were upgraded to a suite) and had a wonderful time :) Eating wasn't great...but i knew it wasn't going to be...im not going to get worried about it because its done and over with. Time to get back to business ;)
Did 30 min EMC this morning and then hit the legs hard at the gym...it was a really long workout too for some reason....but i got through it all...well almost all of it....i had to do 100 jump lunges at the end of the torture...i got 40 in...which means i will have to finish them tonight when i get home :)
Other than that...nothing exciting really happening. Im going to my sister's tonight for dinner (im bringing mine) just to hang out and see my nephew. God forbid, i dont see my family at least once a week! LOL! Which brings up something that really gets to me. My sister's birthday is sunday. She calls me last night and asks me to go to dinner on saturday night....there are a bunch of couples going....all her friends...and she asked me and adam to go...but this is the way she asks me : "well i dont even know why im inviting you because i know your not going to go but im not rude like you and i invite you to things, but we are going to dinner for my birthday on saturday if you want to come." and then adds "and i know adam just loves being around a bunch of people too", so im sure you will go (being sarcastic)....and me, the non confortational person that i am, doesn't say a word.....if she can be a bitch, why cant I?
So then she texts me this morning and asks me if we are going....i told her "i dont think so, we dont have the money and honestly, they are your friends, and i just wouldn't feel comfortable. And it has nothing to do with Adam. (because she will automatically think that its Adam who doesn't want to go)....i shouldn't care anymore...but i do. I feel like im the younger sibling and she is the older one. Its just so many things with all of them...Adam doesn't come around all the time because he is busy...he works all day, then goes to the gym, and on tuesdays (which is when i see my family usually) he takes Angelica to Karate so he doesn't get home until 8:30 or so....so he hasn't seen anyone in probably close to a month...but they automatically think that he doesn't want to be around them and that he doesn't like them..but in actuality, he knows that they say stuff about him all the time and doesn't want to be around it. So, its a crazy situation and i hate being in the middle of it...its annoying!
Anyway....I think that is all i got.....im tired now....LOL!
7 comments:
I think we have something new in common... :)
Girl.......I feel your pain with the family situation! They love to make us feel guilty! Hang in there, and congrats on the anniversary!
The best thing is to not let it get to you. Whatever they say it's only words.
Easy to say when you're not in the situation I know, but really, if they can't get a grasp of the real truth, that's their problem not yours.
You're doing what you need to do for yourself and that's the most important thing, that you do what's best in the situation. They have their life and needs, you yours.
You're doing really well right now, you just need to keep focusing on the positives and the good things to come.
Good luck and best wishes.
:-) :-).
Matt
Oh, how I wish you had said, "Although your invitation was SO sweet and made it sound like we were SO welcome to come, we're going to pass." Eww...family can be so annoying sometimes. Speaking of which, my three year old is crying yet again over nothing. Is it their bedtime yet? Ugh.
Congratulations on your anniversary!
I don't recommend this, but I have a completely disowned sister and wouldn't have it any other way.
I may be immature... but I love myself THAT much to give her up. lol
~C.
Hey Angela... thanks for dropping by my blog ! Nice to meet another fit chick online. Families can be very trying. And you know that they say, you can chose your friends, but you can't chose your family...
Congrats on two years! That's great :o) Sean and I have been together officially 6 months hee hee.
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