Well the bloat from my vacation is finally gone i think. Im feeling much better now that im back on schedule. I need to be on a strict schedule otherwise all hell breaks loose!
Now my problem.....I don't know what to do...Im really struggling money wise for saving for the wedding...and its coming up quickly....6 months...plus the holidays in between....I really love working with Tony but its a lot of extra money right now that i really shouldn't be putting out. I have 6 months worth of workouts to recycle until the wedding..but i feel bad :( I don't want to be a quitter.....i feel that he is going to be disappointed in me....i mean, i am going to stick with his routine and eating the same as i have been....I am such a wuss when it comes to talking to people and he has done nothing but helped me...and i will go back to him after the wedding....i just feel bad :(
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I totally understand what you mean. You kinda feel like your breaking up with him. He is more than understanding. Just be honest.
Just do it Angela. You've learned plenty in the last 3-4 months about diet and exercise from this person, and let's face it, nobody is going to be loyally shelling out hard cash to anyone like that for 30,40,50+ years.
Eventually they will know enough about what they were taught, to stand on two feet and walk this path unassisted.
You are NOT a quitter yeah. You only quit, when you say goodbye to exercise and eat a mediocre diet again.
Quitting in laymans terms is when someone says, they're not capable of doing something anymore, (I.E. a 65 year old man giving up tri-athlons), or they're just not good enough to keep doing something they can't succeed at.
You're succeeding, but even with his help, you have put 100% of yourself into this, otherwise adivce can't work, unless you trust it, and put the effort in.
You're not a quittter for this, and you have the knowledge and understanding now, to not go back to those mild workouts, and 120 calorie Fish and Bean dinners, that I'm sure probably hindered more than helped.
So just do this, no fear, no worries, and you'll be fine okay :-).
You're doing great, and you look superb, because you have given plenty of effort, and made what you've been told, work for you.
You are going to look the blushing bride in 6 months, and you've done yourself and your stepdaughter proud, and you're NOT going to lapse into old habits, because you aren't with a trainer / guru anymore.
So think positive, keep pushing for all your goals, you CAN, and no worries. You WILL do this, and as for support and understanding, you have plenty of that here, so you'll never be found wanting on the down days, or the days where you need things to make sense again. Not when there's people who can come here, and be a virtual hand on your shoulder, to give you that little bit extra, emotionally and mentally to succeed.
You are an inspiration Angela, and you've done fantastically, so cut loose from the trainer, don't worry about it, and spend the money getting your dream day ready, and the lifestyle achievements of the future, will still come good for you.
You are NOT, I repeat NOT a quitter for this, and you never will be.
Unless you quit the lifestyle completely, you will always be a success and a winner for what you've done, and how much you've given.
So WELL DONE, BIG PAT ON THE BACK, and just move forward as always, with confidence, and optimism, you CAN, and you know it deep down I'm sure.
Have a fantastic day, and just go with your Heart on this. It's all going to be good yeah :-) :-).
I have 100% belief in you as a person, to keep succeeding, and doing everything to your current high standards.
Matt
Angela he will totally understand about the money thing! What he doesn't understand is when people choose to bash his phenomenal program cause they can't hang. You have done amazing and you will continue to go so! Like Martha said, just be honest! :)
I understand your feelings, I don't look forward to the day I will have to "break up with Tony" either. Like the other diva's have stated, he will completely understand. Stay strong and utilize everything he taught you.
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